The Art of Forgiving and moving ahead

Forgiveness is not everybody's virtue...for it is the most difficult thing.. opening up your heart being the generous one...

That demands you to put a lot aside...to betray your own ego that u mistake to be ur self-esteem ...and value people more than the incidents...

I have always been a proponent of Forgive but don't forget... but i have to admit it is not applicable to all people or circumstances

 If only you could bring yourself to forgive people you would be free of the slowly simmering anger in you somewhere, the bitterness swelling inside you every now and then..not letting you be completely free and happy because every now and then you are filled with self pity of being treated incorrectly by someone somewhere...

We are all a target of this self pity....
What we forget is that these people who we are angry at are 

• Category 1 - People who were never important enough to be treasured in life, you should be thankful that they exposed their true colors and now you can move on without them.
• Category 2 - People we love, who have done enough goods that we can continue loving them despite the letdowns from them, and give them a second chance because they matter, because they cant be replaced, because if life takes them away from us forever we will always regret the time lost in antagonism.

Well, for category 1 do you even think you should waste your life being angry with them?? they are not worth your time and emotion...forgive them get them out of your system but learn the lesson they taught you..don't let yourself cry over the same mistake again....

Category 2 i needn't say more, don't turn your back on people who mattered, you never know when will life take them away from you and you won't be able to make it up ...never ever so get up now.

U are stopped because you fear that it will be awkward..because you fear that it will never be the same again... because you are told that threads once broken cannot be mended without a knot...but relationships aren't really feeble threads you got to give it a try maybe that knot will melt away...

So go get up now, call them, don't gulp the misery down your throat..even you may not get another chance....

Learn to interpret the thin line between your Ego and your Self-esteem.... differentiate between the ones who really matter and who u wish would matter and don't give up on....either Let-go move on or Turn around and hug them..

All the best :)

Signing off...